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The Highway to Bonding and Growing Up Through the AJGA



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The Highway to Bonding and Growing Up Through the AJGA

Summers are more than just golf, they are lasting impressions on young lives

By Kyle Goltz
Communications Intern

Walking more than 6,000 yards of fairways and greens, crossing state lines on a daily basis just to find themselves taking a quick break in their foldable chairs on the 16th green to see their son or daughter sink an 18-foot putt…these are the parents of American Junior Golf Association members. Without the mothers and fathers, tournaments could not go on, scorecards would go unsigned and college golf scholarships could not be earned. The parents of AJGA juniors are a key part of the overall scheme in junior golf.

Roudebush won the Randy Smith Classic presented by the Lubbock Sports Authority.

Most of them give up their summers along with their jobs to be at their child’s side through the victories and the downfalls. Even with the four-hour weather delays, the 100-degree temperatures and living out of a suitcase for a summer, the parents would not have it any other way.

With a total of 74 AJGA tournaments throughout the country, ranging from Park City, Utah, to Orlando, juniors and their parents can rack up thousands of highway miles along with hours of bonding time between parent and child.

Parents, such as Linda Roudebush, Alan Smith and Kimberley Miller found that spending and traveling the summer with their child can bring more than just golf trophies, but can be moments and lessons that last for lifetimes. 

Aside from being a substitute teacher, a volunteer at her church and volunteering for The First Tee of Austin, Linda Roudebush still finds time to be alongside her son throughout the whole summer. While her husband stays back and works in their hometown of Austin, Texas, Roudebush and her son, Scott, set out on the open roads of Texas while only traveling to tournaments that take place in the Lone Star State.

“Usually, we travel to Texas tournaments only,’’ Roudebush said. “Scott and I would rather drive together than fly.”

While traveling together, Roudebush explained that the best part about driving is spending time with her best friend, her son.

“It’s unique, I am basically growing up with Scott through his adolescent years,” Roudebush said. “We get to know each other on a different level, it’s our bonding time.”

Going to every tournament that his son participants in, Alan Smith always puts his family life first when it comes to his work schedule. 

Traveling to seven tournaments this summer, Smith, father of Ryan Smith, has more time than usual as a result to his decision to shrink his own business in order to see every putt his son attempts. Owning his own insurance company and being his own boss, Smith has seen the size and profit of his company reduce, but on the other hand, can travel with his son throughout the summer to further his ambition for golf.    

Miller won his first AJGA event at the Ringgold Telephone Company Junior Classic.

“I am my own boss in the workplace,” Smith said. “I come and go as I please. Spending that time with my son on the road is worth it, those are the best times I have.”

Along with shrinking his business, Smith also gave up one of his passions just to be with his son, day in and day out.

"I hardly play golf anymore ever since my son started playing,” Smith said. “To tell you the truth, I wouldn’t have it any other way.”

Along with doing laundry, cleaning up after her children, and taking care of the kids when they are under the weather, Kimberley Miller still finds time for her son’s passion of playing junior golf. Being on the road for five weeks straight with her son William, Miller explained the best part of traveling is being with her son 24/7.

“We have similar personalities that go hand and hand,” Miller said. “It’s nice to sit down and eat dinner with your son every night. The chemistry between us is great.”

While being a mother for her two other children, Miller sometimes feels overwhelmed on the road.    

“I feel like I am going in 14 different directions sometimes,” Miller said. “Trying to be a mom for my children back home and being there for (William) when he needs me.”

Traveling across the nation and being by their child’s side at every tournament, the parents of the AJGA dedicate their summer and time just to see their child excel in the golfing world. Moments of seeing their child grow into a unique individual and bonding with them every minute of the day, the parents of the AJGA would have it no other way.